Ever since the birth of CCI I’ve longed to see each member on the CCI Team contribute regularly with short Christ-stories that can inspire us in our partnership effort – serving the Lord on a global scale, in equipping His people to expand His Kingdom without limit. Thank you, sincerely, to each person who has made such valuable contributions along the way.
At this time, it’s my pleasure to share with you the following Christ-story that has been offered by our brother, Dave Quak, Pastor of Living Temple Christian Church at the Gold Coast, in Queensland, Australia (www.livingtemple.com.au). Dave says …
Dear CCI family and friends,
Bill is like a dog with a bone! For those of you who know Bill, you will understand that I am not being offensive…. His bone is Life Groups! A dog with a bone can think of nothing but the bone… Bill is OCD for CCI…LOL.… I have it on good authority that he sleeps with a Joel Comiskey book under his pillow J. Here is my problem… Bill has persuaded me and Jess (my wife) to lead a small, life group based church. (Just for some context, we are almost 2 years old, 10 ish life groups, and Sunday congregation of about 40…)
Here is the thing. I am meeting more and more people who genuinely love Jesus, want to serve him for life, but really don’t enjoy Sunday church…. they love life group, love life, and enjoy living here on the coast, but don’t really feel like cooping-up in a dark room, listening to me dribble-on, on the only day they have off in a week. I know there are some people who love the Sunday celebration, love preaching and corporate worship, and love church… I get that… but what about our brothers and sister who don’t?
As a pastor, I have a warped view of the cost of attending church. Technically speaking, Sunday is a work-day for me, so if I spend all day at church, it doesn’t bother me… but that is not true for most people. Most people sacrifice a good chunk of their best day to sit in church. The reality is that sometimes the sermon will be average, sometimes the worship won’t connect, and sometimes they will have to have obligatory conversations with people all afternoon, while they would much rather be at the beach with their family… What do we do? I love Christians who love the Sunday part of church, and I love Christians who are frustrated by Sunday church…. SOOO I am stuck at what to steer toward in the future…
My hunch is that Bill’s bone is the key. I need to set up networks of people who love Jesus, and express church through life groups…they need to be people who want to affiliate with Living Temple (our church), and people who do not. Somehow this needs to happen while, at the same time, providing great Sunday celebrations for those who prefer Sunday church. People can choose one way, or the other way, or both ways… but they need to know that Jesus is going to encounter them, regardless of our understanding of church structure.
Obviously there will be an overlap, but I think the big key to the whole deal is making sure people feel free to express church in the way that suits them. I realise we could all go through the Bible and find verses that teach life group church, big church, small church, no leadership church, heavily leadership church, charismatic, conservative etc etc etc… I am not saying this is the only way…. but here on the Gold Coast, where I live, I am not sure heavily Sunday service focussed churches are maximising on the natural demographics of our city.
I had 4 weeks holiday in October (praise Jesus), so my family went down the beach at 8am one Sunday morning. We could not find a park anywhere… the place was packed with families laughing and playing, young people surfing and getting fit, fat people doing exercise (grin), old people holding hands… it was really lovely… the truth is that I would have been bummed to have to leave that and go to church… I would have much rather had my life group come join me at the beach.
I have heard all the objections to this…”that’s because you don’t have enough commitment to God’s house” NOT TRUE… I have given my life and sacrificed much to see the kingdom grow….
“you worship leisure, not God”…. NOT TRUE!
“You have poor ecclesiology”… Maybe… but the Bible is pretty grey on this area…
“You are conforming to local culture instead of kingdom culture”… well, I actually have never seen a local culture conform to kingdom culture EVER… especially in Australia…
I realise this is not concise or clear… but I guess my question for the CCI community is “why do people bother with a Sunday focus?” It seems upside down… and actually like more work than it’s worth.
If I need preaching, I can download millions of sermons from thousands of great preachers
If I need to sing praises, I have 600 praise songs in my iPhone…
If I need community, I have heaps of friends
If I need to evangelise, all my neighbours are not with Jesus
mmmmmmm… I think that is it.
Anyway… Just thought I would vent for a while…
Love you guys
Dave